For years of joint life passion reincarnated in a marriage duty? It is necessary to rectify situation! It is possible to arrange unusual appointment – to make love outdoors or to think up that-nibudt even more exotic. But after all the most important – to develop intimate affairs in the correct direction. We come back to sources Remember that you got at first your relations. Brawny torso of the man? Its compliments? Perhaps, eventually these basic "catalysts" were gone: the spouse began to eat more and to say less. It is necessary to return without what it lost taste in your proximity. READ ALSO – How to find, what the spouse changes? – Give party of memoirs. Imperceptibly pass to conversation that once enticed you in the spouse and what you miss. For example, considering a photo of those of years, admire its tightened figure. – Ask the spouse about what it misses. Most likely, he too has memoirs from which the heart fights more quickly. – Reflect that will help to return a sharpness to your relations. For example, if both of you got out of a former physical shape, it is occasion to go in for sports in common. You can become more harmonous or is not present, a separate subject. Essentially that common cause will help you to approach. By the way, and you tried to make love on a velosimulator?. We forget offenses The longer affairs, the accumulates mutual claims about which it is heavy to forget in a bed more. But they need to be dumped together with clothes! – Softly stop tests of the spouse to continue a showdown in a bedroom. Make so that his hands, sponges, and the main thing, thoughts were busy. – Be trained to be switched from the 1st sensual condition to another to separate sex from all the rest. Accept proximity as rest during which difficulties recede into the background. – Let sex fixes your reconciliation. Then it will associate with pleasure, gratitude and simplification. We notice changes during joint life both of you exchanged. But completely can be, as it, and you continue to act by inertia. For example, you got used that the spouse likes kisses in an ear. And it long since does not react to them, but is afraid to admit and does not stop you when you diligently caress each mm of an auricle, hoping to deliver it pleasure. Be attentive to each other, watch the partner. – Do not ask the spouse directly: "For you it is pleasant, when I?." Even if it is not pleasant to it, most likely, he will answer in the affirmative not to offend you. Ask it to tell about sexy preferences better. – Report that is pleasant for you. And here run across to fixing of the found knowledge. We speak, instead of your spouse not the telepathist, after all so is thought? Then do not count that he reads mind at distance in addition catches feelings which you and itself cannot design. – Do not pretend that you simply so started talking about sex. Admit that it is concerned changes in your relations. – Do not refer to migraine to avoid intim. Explain the spouse that you want sex, but not that, as at present. He does not realize? Find the film in what everything is visually shown. Cooperative viewing and discussion of special details will create the intimate atmosphere. Apply it – that канителить! We would rejoice to each meeting What difficulties were present at yours with the partner the relations, essentially that you till this moment in common. Tell about it to own loved man, thank him for patience and admit, as you appreciate everything that it does to you. Small offenses quite often accumulate at each other, eclipsing the real feelings. Do not allow it! Reflect for a minute that in about 20-30-40 years you at all desire any more will have no sex, after all resources of an organism are limited, and life certainly. Therefore be charmed here and at present. After all it is so healthy that you are each other! Founder: Maria Baulina, psychologist Source: magazine "Lisa"