"The lady do not appear, it become". Simon de Beauvoir Ekspert with long experience in the field of positive psychology, transcultural house therapy, psychosomatic medicine, the managing director of ladies’ club "Insayt" Victoria Slavin knows, how it is simple to become the successful and happy lady. The real lady what perceives and loves itself. It will not be arranged under others, to copy model or the actress, the girlfriend or the neigbour. To feel itself as the true Lady – happy, successful, assured in itself, a beloved – I suggest to use several good advice. Rule No. 1. Sing of odes for itself a beloved "I, (name), the unique, inimitable, exclusive Real Lady who has come to this world to live the life and only the". 10-ki once a day say this phrase. READ ALSO – How to find out the truth about the relations on a photo? To me ladies who povsevremenno "do something better" by means of silicone, operations quite often come. This process can become never-ending at the end of which you do not recognize yourselves. And the truth in other place – in a heart, soul. Accepting itself and loving itself, you accept each cell of own body. You believe what you – unique, exclusive, inimitable? Yes, you specifically such! Was not, is not present and never there will be that as you. Rule No. 2. Lead own life, instead of life of own kids, the spouse, parents, friends Quite often from the ill-fated lady whom already for 50, you hear:" I for the sake of you did not sleep nights, youth ruined". It becomes clear to a meeting: it was devastated. This lady devoted itself to another, strove on someone, tried to please, but thanks did not wait. Now regrets that lived life not how follows was. Lived another’s life, instead of the. In life there should be a place to creativity, hobbies, a hobby, that amuses specifically you, not including works, the spouse and kids. Rule No. 3. Our body is necessary to be charming for itself it is possible to compare with the car for which essentially to look after all the year round, regardless of a season – then it will regularly serve us. The ordinary lady and Real do it differently. The ordinary lady dresses up for the sake of people around, and only Real-. The ordinary lady exhausts itself diets, "ботоксами", mesotherapies. The real lady simply looks after itself and does it in pleasure. She aspires to that being pleasant for itself, knows that is concrete it on temper. She allows to eat for herself a delicacy, to take pleasure in taste. She can keep to a diet, but will not shout about procedures for the whole world, as at present stylishly. My two clients devoted in the secrets of husbands. It appeared, spouses even did them enemas during organism clarification. Those, after that "hyper trust" began to walk up and down. Men should not penetrate into such details as plucking out of eyebrows and shaving, to create you in hair curlers and face packs. The lady should remain a riddle, on another at the man the sexy desire to it will be gone. At most инфы which the lady will manage to share with the beloved, is that it was in beauty salon. Than specifically you there were engaged, him should not disturb. The same concerns also all people around. Rule No. 4. Feel unique the Real lady it is charmed by the man’s company, instead of calls on revenue of girlfriends. She does not struggle with competitors, it does not have them. It – is exclusive. The slogan of her life speaks: let 40 ladies will rise ahead of me, and I will not envy all to forty. Rule No. 5. The real lady chooses for itself the spouse as a gift Remember this rule! Ladies present themselves to men at the first meeting, and it is beforehand losing option. Trying to please it, you the hands destroy affairs. After all men – hunters and conquerors, they need to overcome obstacles. It will escape from the most tasty pies and vsedostupny sex to other lady who is necessary for winning. Правило№ 6. Be able to say "no" the Ordinary lady suffers the dullish company, if only to offend nobody. Real – can rise and leave. And if she decided to lie down on a sofa with the book, invitations to shopping from girlfriends will not force it to be released from own desire. It is impossible to object for itself and to be engaged in servility. Rule No. 7. Do not destroy itself jealousy Pistayelnitsa Dzhermeyn Greer says:" The man is jealous, as very much loves itself; the lady is jealous, as loves itself" insufficiently. Also it is the truth. If the ordinary lady had a reason for jealousy, it runs into a hysterics, but all charges of the man explain female paranoia and the rough imagination. The real lady, having learned about incorrectness of the beloved, perceives this fact. Finally it corrects a situation, understanding that in change two are guilty, or leaves from it. If you are sure that wish to continue affairs with such man, say nothing. It is necessary to draw a molchok conclusions and to work over strengthening of the relations. The man should not know about your awareness. If the lady blabbed out, it is necessary to collect things and to leave it. Let the man will be terrified, will start missing, will ponder a situation, will try to return and grasp you again. In an unpleasant case about the lady all wipe feet more often. That you should say for yourselves povsevremenno 1. Unscrupulously what change in my life – to the best 2. I love myself indisputable love and in the afternoon and a night 3. I respect myself 4. I believe in myself 5. I care about for myself 6. I support physical and spiritual health 7. I love the body and I care of it 8. I am open for new ideas which will promote to change my life 9. I enjoy the life 10. I love Life According to the book "School of Geishas. Lessons of recruitment and deduction of the man" Victoria Slavina, School of Geishas of "Insayt"